Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships: A Psychological Perspective
When it comes to relationships, the heart often sees what the mind tries to ignore. But emotional intelligence demands that we slow down, pay attention, and protect our peace. True love does not come wrapped in pain, confusion, or control. It feels safe, empowering, and clear. Below are some of the signs every woman should take note of, backed by psychology and written with the intention to inform, not to frighten. 1.Beware of a Man Who Thrives on Your Past Pain A man who truly loves you won’t interrogate you about your past relationships just to feed his curiosity or trigger emotional reactions. If he seems entertained by your wounds, take a step back and reflect. This is not love. It’s emotional sadism. Psychological Insight: Studies have linked such behavior to narcissistic and sociopathic tendencies, where emotional manipulation becomes a tool for control (Paulhus & Williams, 2002). 2. Lack of Genuine Attraction If a man needs external stimulation, like erotic content, to be...